How to Handle Feelings for Another Guy When You Have a Boyfriend

I have a bf and dating another guy

And some of the advice on here sucks. Find the right man for you. Consider whether your commitment is something that you can continue to carry on. When you have a boyfriend, but are crushing on another guy too, handling your split feelings in a smart, sensitive way is a must. He's funny and caring and shows x more affection than my current bf does and I think that's the issue.

He doesn't ever show his feelings and it's rare when he's sweet and mushy. Attraction alone results in a short-term relationship.

First I would say trust with what you feel is right, and my opinion is that if you don't see this relationship you're in going anywhere, then let him down gently just don't mention the other guy. If not, end things before you become unfaithful. He walks into chem class and your palms begin to sweat as your stomach fills with butterflies. You'd go with the hot guy.

He doesn't ever showAttraction alone results in aFirst I would say trust with

But I'm with my boyfriend and I can't leave him. We've been through a lot together. This means that you may develop feelings for a new partner as your likes, dislikes and life goals change. Don't leave your current job for the new job that pays better and better future.

Live your life with some more courage. Instead, if you know that you have real feelings for another guy, don't keep your mouth closed or lie to him about it. And he is definitely a big part of my life and I'm scared to lose him. Over the past year, I started having suspicions that we might not be working as a couple anymore. He's cute, sweet and you are totally interested in him.

For example, your beau may admit that he hasn't been paying attention to you and suggest that's why you're having feelings for someone else. We've gone to amusement parks and concerts together and we go shopping and he's even dropped me off at work before and picked me up. Even though you might want to have a serious, committed relationship, it's likely that you simply aren't ready to settle down just yet.

It's not intentional though. Then if your heart and mind tells you something, leave the current Boyfriend to see the potential. Last summer, I took some summer classes and met a guy who is so hot I can't even describe it.

How to Handle Feelings for Another Guy When You Have a Boyfriend

Loyalty alone isn't enough for any type of relationship, other than a platonic friendship. If something better comes along, you have the right to investigate it. And as for my boyfriend, well I feel like I need to tell him what's going on. He works two jobs so I'm lucky if.

Even if you haven't acted, or don't think that you'll act, on your feelings, letting it all come out can help you to relax and figure out the situation. You're just afraid that if you dump him, you won't be able to get and keep someone better. This is a tricky conversation to have, making sensitivity key. The only reason you're not moving on is fear. End it with him honestly and go out and live life.

Dishonest behavior is likely to ruin your relationship in the long-run. The guy at work instantly liked me when he first saw me. He thinks I overreact when in reality, I'm genuinely hurt by some of the things he does. Because I thought I loved him, but I'm questioning it because of the new guy at work. The guy at work knows I have a bf, and he's being very patient and understanding.